Separation of Church and State is Not in the Constitution. Who Knew?

Dear Reader,

     Recently the news and social media has been all fired up over the issue regarding marriage equality. This is a very sensitive topic for everyone and it has ranged from good natured discussions to full fledged hatred and bullying-from both sides.  Now, this being said, I am not posting this to add fuel to the fire, I am merely commenting on something that has been bugging me for awhile now.

     One of the arguments that gets thrown around, whether it's in regards to gay rights, abortion or any other hot, button-pressing topic, is the cry of "separation of church and state!"  This mantra has become the go to phrase for anyone trying to grasp at legal protection for what they want to do, but guess what?  The words "Separation of Church and State" doesn't appear in our Nation's Constitution at all.  If you don't believe me, I challenge you to go and read through it.  The only mention of religion is in the First Amendment of the Bill of Rights.

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof

I found a fantastic article that addresses this very issue.  It made me think "Aha! This sums up what I feel perfectly."  (I added some of it here and put the link on the bottom of this post.)

"What the Constitution’s First Amendment does say is that government shall make no law “respecting an establishment of religion or prohibiting the free exercise thereof.” It is well to attend to the actual words of the Constitution (an admirable obsession of some Tea Party folks, like Ms. O’Donnell). Nowhere is this more important than with the Establishment Clause of the First Amendment: forbidding an official establishment of religion is something quite different from the much looser, imprecise term “separation of church and state.” The Constitution only forbids government sponsorship and compulsion of religious exercise by individual citizens. It does not require hermetic “separation”—implying exclusion—of religion and religious persons from public affairs of state.

   
     A strict separationist view is not supported by the Constitution. Indeed, such an approach would contradict other parts of the First Amendment, in important ways. Most obviously, it would be at war with the protection of the “free exercise” of religion. If government could wall out religious persons and groups from participation in public affairs or from benefits or programs generally available to all, on the basis of neutral criteria, that would mean government could discriminate against religion. It is utter foolishness to think that the framers of the First Amendment intended such a result—and wrote an incoherent guarantee of religious liberty that contradicted itself in the same sentence, both requiring and forbidding discrimination against religion in one breath.

     The strict separationist view is also at war with the freedom of speech and press, likewise protected by the First Amendment. Under a “separation” view, religious groups could not use government facilities (school buildings, public parks) for expressive purposes on the same basis as other groups. Literally dozens of Supreme Court cases reject that view. In a notable 1995 case (Rosenberger v. University of Virginia) the Court held that a state university could not refuse to fund on an even-handed basis a religious student newspaper, if it made funding available to other student publications. The Free Speech Clause forbade discrimination against religious speech or press, the Court held, and the Establishment Clause could not sensibly be read to require such discrimination.

     The correct understanding of the First Amendment is not that it forbids contact—and even voluntary cooperation—between church and state. Rather, it protects private religious liberty, but does so in two complementary ways. In a nutshell, government may neither compel nor prohibit religious exercise. The Establishment Clause side of the coin says that government may not prescribereligious exercise; the Free Exercise side says that government may notproscribe, disfavor or otherwise punish or prevent religious exercise voluntarily chosen by the people. But the two phrases are two sides of the same coin. It is little wonder, then, that the Supreme Court has abandoned entirely the misleading metaphor “separation of church and state.” It simply does not help explain the true meaning of the First Amendment.

     This is more than a quibble. The different understanding makes a difference in results. Under a separation view, government must discriminate against religion, reject school choice “voucher” plans that include religious options, and extirpate religious references and symbols from public discourse. Under the original meaning of the Constitution, government must protect religious choices and include religious persons, groups, and speakers on an equal basis. It may recognize and accommodate religion, as long as it does not in effect compel persons to engage in religious exercises or practices against their will—the hallmark of what an “establishment of religion” was understood to mean at the time the framers wrote the First Amendment.

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Where in the Constitution is “Separation of Church and State”? | Public Discourse

     Now this is important because today's society is becoming increasingly hostile towards those who hold religious beliefs close to heart.  Many people clamor for their rights, all the while stomping on the rights of others.  History will give you plenty examples of that.  Most people with religious beliefs now, aren't trying to force their religion down the throat of others when they disagree with them.  They are just exercising their right to have their opinion and speak up for it.

   I know that these issues aren't going to be resolved soon and it will probably get worse before it gets better, so let's remember to be kind and respectful.  Just a thought.....

Protesting with...Pants?

A Rant:
(All opinions are entirely my own)
Hello folks!

     I know it has been awhile since I last wrote.  I took a short hiatus after the election, time to cool my jets and enjoy the finer things in life like Thanksgiving with my wonderful family.  I also got caught up in the seasonal bugs that travel from person to person during this wintery time of year but I am all better now and just in time to share my thoughts with you on this lovely matter:

PUSH FOR LDS WOMEN TO WEAR PANTS!

(And I said to myself, "Self, this could be interesting)

 A quick run-down for those of you who may not be familiar with above mentioned movement:

     A feminist Mormon group is urging women to ditch their skirts and wear pants to church this weekend in a show of solidarity for women's equality.

    The group, known as All Enlisted, has created a Facebook group that is making the rounds in Mormon circles inviting women to wear pants to show the similarities between men and women within the LDS faith.

"We believe that much of the cultural, structural and even doctrinal inequality that persists in the LDS Church today stems from the church's reliance on -- and enforcement of -- rigid gender roles that bear no relationship to reality," the group wrote on its Facebook announcement.  It's not really about pants, though, blogger Hannah Wheelwright pointed out. The Brigham Young University student and blogger for Young Mormon Feminists said the pants campaign is about bringing awareness within the church to feminist issues. Many women don't feel equal. This is a campaign to highlight, and then change that.
She said the effort could help other feminists within a ward recognize that they aren't alone and that others feel the same way as they do. She also stated it could show church members that a lot of people see changes within the traditions and culture of the church that could make the church more feminist friendly.  In a statement Stephanie Lauritezen [one of the co-founders of the group] gave to KUTV in Utah she says:

"I feel like my opportunities in the church are limited because of my gender," she continues by saying what she would do if she had the priesthood: “I would bless my child and I would use it to bless other people in my life so I wouldn't have to call a stranger in the middle of the night to say 'my husband is sick, come give him a blessing.' I could do that and make my family better.”

     A spokesman for the Church said, "Attending church is about worship and learning to be followers of Jesus Christ. Generally church members are encouraged to wear their best clothing as a sign of respect for the Savior, but we don't counsel people beyond that," he said.

       For the record, I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and have been my whole life.  I'm 26 years old (hey that's the same age as Stephanie), which means I don't know everything but, I try and educate myself on issues that I feel are important.  I feel that this issue has importance but I think the founders of this movement are making their approach the wrong way.  

     Here's what I gather from their statements: "I don't feel as important as men (blame the men)."  "I feel like my opportunities are limited because of my gender (blame the idea of gender roles)."  "Mormon women aren't equal to men so I'm leaving the church (blame The Church)."  "I can't hold any *insert any male leadership roles here* ergo, The Church is sexist (again, blame the church).  Their answer?  The Church is wrong, lets make them change.

     My thoughts and opinions on this matter?  I feel that a lot of these women have their own personal issues with gender and they're looking for something easy to blame it on.  Are there different genders?  Yes.  Are there rigid gender roles? Only if YOU allow them to be.  Wearing of pants in a church setting as a means of protest is disrespectful to the very religion you claim to love and believe.  If a woman were to attend a formal affair, a dress would be the form of attire deemed appropriate.  The same goes for church.  LDS women don't wear skirts or dresses to church services because "some man" decreed it to be so, but because they want to show love and respect for their Savior.  

     I am an LDS woman.  I do not feel that my opportunities in the Church are limited because of my gender.  Men and women have similarities and differences and that's AWESOME!!!! We bring so much to the table when we learn how to work together and stop playing the gender blame game.  I love  this Church and my relationship with my Savior, He has seen me through the good times and the bad.  I've had my days of doubt, of loneliness, isolation and feelings of self-deprication and wondering if I mattered to the Lord, and I learned that when you feel like that then take it to Him with faith and sincerity and He will answer.  Ask and ye shall receive.  It's all over the scriptures:)

 Since this is a subject concerning a religion, I want to leave you with these inspiring words from Elder M. Russell Ballard, it's long but it is absolutely worth the read, especially for any dear sister who may be struggling with their own feelings of discouragement and wondering if they truly matter in the eyes of God.

As I have considered the days that lie ahead, I believe this message is vital to both men and women. So I invite the men to prayerfully consider these words: Your lives are significantly influenced by the women who are your wives, your daughters, and your associates with whom you are privileged to work and serve in the Church.

Let me set the stage by quoting from a letter sent to Church headquarters. This woman wrote:

“I have a wonderful husband and children, whom I love deeply. I love the Lord and His Church more than I can say. I know the Church is true! I realize I shouldn’t feel discouraged about who I am. Yet I have been going through an identity crisis most of my life. I have never dared utter these feelings out loud but have hidden them behind the huge, confident smile I wear to church every week. For years I have doubted if I had any value beyond my roles as a wife and mother. I have feared that men are that they might have joy, but that women are that they might be overlooked. I long to feel that I, as a woman, matter to the Lord.”

I would like to respond to the issue that underlies the concern of this faithful woman. Does the Lord respect women? Do women matter to the Lord? The answer is yes—a resounding yes!

The Value of Women

Elder James E. Talmage (1862–1933) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles stated that “the world’s greatest champion of woman and womanhood is Jesus the Christ” (Jesus the Christ, 3rd edition [1916], 475). I believe that. The first time the Lord acknowledged Himself to be the Christ, it was to a Samaritan woman at Jacob’s well. He taught her about living water and proclaimed, simply, “I … am he” (John 4:26). And it was Martha to whom He proclaimed: “I am the resurrection, and the life. … And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die” (John 11:25–26).

Then, during His greatest agony as He hung on the cross, the Savior reached out to one person—His mother—when in that terrible but glorious moment He asked John the Beloved to care for her as though she were his own (see John 19:26–27).

Of this you may be certain: The Lord especially loves righteous women—women who are not only faithful but filled with faith, women who are optimistic and cheerful because they know who they are and where they are going, women who are striving to live and serve as women of God.

There are those who suggest that males are favored of the Lord because they are ordained to hold the priesthood. Anyone who believes this does not understand the great plan of happiness. The premortal and mortal natures of men and women were specified by God Himself, and it is simply not within His character to diminish the roles and responsibilities of any of His children.

As President Joseph Fielding Smith (1876–1972) explained, “The Lord offers to his daughters every spiritual gift and blessing that can be obtained by his sons” (in Conference Report, April 1970, 59). All of us, men and women alike, receive the gift of the Holy Ghost and are entitled to personal revelation. We may all take upon us the Lord’s name, become sons and daughters of Christ, partake of the ordinances of the temple from which we emerge endowed with power, receive the fulness of the gospel, and achieve exaltation in the celestial kingdom. These spiritual blessings are available to men and women alike, according to their faithfulness and their effort to receive them.

The basic doctrinal purpose for the Creation of the earth is to provide for God’s spirit children the continuation of the process of exaltation and eternal life. God said to Moses:

“And I, God, created man in mine own image, in the image of mine Only Begotten created I him; male and female created I them.

“And I, God, blessed them, and said unto them: Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth” (Moses 2:27–28).

The Church’s proclamation on the family confirms that God has not revoked or changed this commandment. The First Presidency and the Twelve Apostles “solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children” (“The Family: A Proclamation to the World,” Liahona, October 1998, 24).

This doctrine sometimes causes women to ask: “Is a woman’s value dependent exclusively upon her role as a wife and mother?” The answer is simple and obvious: No. Although there is nothing a woman can do that has more far-reaching, eternal impact than to rear her children to walk in righteousness, motherhood and marital status are not the only measures of a woman’s worth. Some women do not have the privilege of marrying or rearing children in this life. Yet if they are worthy, these blessings will come later. Men and women who do have the privilege of rearing children will of course be held accountable for that priceless, eternal stewardship. Although there is simply not a more significant contribution you can make to society, to the Church, or to the eternal destiny of our Father’s children than what you will do as a mother or father, motherhood and fatherhood are not the only measures of goodness or of one’s acceptance before the Lord. Every righteous man and woman has a significant role to play in the onward march of the kingdom of God.

Concern about Satan’s Distortions

I have a deep and abiding feeling about women and about the crucial difference they make in every important setting—particularly in the family and in the Church. I have spoken boldly about the role women must play in the council system of the Church (see “Strength in Counsel,” Ensign,November 1993, 76–78). We cannot fulfill our mission as a Church without the inspired insight and support of women.

For that reason I am concerned about what I see happening with some of our young women. Satan would have you dress, talk, and behave in unnatural and destructive ways in your relationships with young men. The adversary is having great success distorting attitudes about gender and roles and about families and individual worth. He is the author of mass confusion about the value, the role, the contribution, and the unique nature of women. Today’s popular culture, which is preached by every form of media from movies to the Internet, celebrates the sexy, sassy, socially aggressive woman. These distortions are seeping into the thinking of some of our own women.

My deep desire is to clarify how we in the presiding councils of the Church feel about the sisters of this Church, how our Heavenly Father feels about His daughters, and what He expects of them. My dear sisters, we believe in you. We believe in and are counting on your goodness and your strength, your propensity for virtue and valor, your kindness and courage, your strength and resilience. We believe in your mission as women of God. We realize that you are the emotional (and sometimes spiritual) glue that holds families and often ward families together. We believe that the Church simply will not accomplish what it must without your faith and faithfulness, your innate tendency to put the well-being of others ahead of your own, and your spiritual strength and tenacity. And we believe that God’s plan is for you to become queens and to receive the highest blessings any woman can receive in time or eternity. On the other hand, Satan’s plan is to get you so preoccupied with the world’s glitzy lies about women that you completely miss what you have come here to do and to become. Remember, Satan wants us to “be miserable like unto himself” (2 Ne. 2:27). Never lose your precious identity by doing anything that would jeopardize the promised eternal future your Heavenly Father has provided for you.

Young men, lest you get too comfortable while I focus on the women, you have a significant role in all of this. You are sometimes the reason our young women get distracted from their eternal mission here. Let the women in your life know that you want them to be women of God and not women of the world. The Lord expects you to protect and safeguard His daughters. Great will be your remorse if you should steal from any young woman her virtue and purity.

Women Are Vital to the Lord’s Work

My earnest plea and prayer is that young men and women will understand that our sisters have always been vital and integral to the work of the Lord. Faithful women have labored valiantly in the cause of truth and righteousness from before the foundations of this world. In his vision of the redemption of the dead, President Joseph F. Smith (1838–1918) saw not only Father Adam and other prophets but “our glorious Mother Eve, with many of her faithful daughters who had lived through the ages and worshiped the true and living God” (D&C 138:39).

Think about the incomparable role of Eve, whose actions set in motion the great plan of our Father. And what about Mary, the “precious and chosen vessel” (Alma 7:10) who bore the Christ child? Surely no one would question the contributions made by these majestic women.

Our dispensation is not without its heroines. Countless women from every continent and walk of life have made dramatic contributions to the cause of Christ. Consider Lucy Mack Smith, the mother of the martyred prophets Joseph and Hyrum and the grandmother of President Joseph F. Smith. Her resilience and righteousness under the most emotionally and spiritually taxing conditions surely influenced her prophet sons and set them firmly on the path toward fulfilling their foreordained destiny.

At this point you may be thinking, “But what about me and my contribution? I’m not Eve or Mary or even Lucy Mack Smith. I’m just regular, plain old me. Is there something about my contribution that is significant to the Lord? Does He really need me?” Remember, the righteous who are not highly visible are valued too and, in the words of aBook of Mormon prophet, are “no less serviceable unto the people” (Alma 48:19).

President Spencer W. Kimball (1895–1985) responded to that question this way: “Both a righteous man and a righteous woman are a blessing to all those whom their lives touch.

“… In the world before we came here, faithful women were given certain assignments while faithful men were foreordained to certain priesthood tasks. While we do not now remember the particulars, … we are accountable for those things which long ago were expected of us” (My Beloved Sisters [1979], 37).

Every sister in this Church who has made covenants with the Lord has a divine mandate to help save souls, to lead the women of the world, to strengthen the homes of Zion, and to build the kingdom of God. Sister Eliza R. Snow (1804–87), the second general president of the Relief Society, said that “every sister in this church should be a preacher of righteousness … because we have greater and higher privileges than any other females upon the face of the earth” (“Great Indignation Meeting,”Deseret Evening News, 15 January 1870, 2).

Every sister who stands for truth and righteousness diminishes the influence of evil. Every sister who strengthens and protects her family is doing the work of God. Every sister who lives as a woman of God becomes a beacon for others to follow and plants seeds of righteous influence that will be harvested for decades to come. Every sister who makes and keeps sacred covenants becomes an instrument in the hands of God.

The Savior’s Example

I have been drawn to an interchange between God the Father and His eldest and Only Begotten Son, who is the ultimate example of living up to one’s premortal promises. When God asked who would come to earth to prepare a way for all mankind to be saved and strengthened and blessed, it was Jesus Christ who said, simply, “Here am I, send me” (Abr. 3:27).

Just as the Savior stepped forward to fulfill His divine responsibilities, we have the challenge and responsibility to do likewise. If you are wondering if you make a difference to the Lord, imagine the impact when you make commitments such as the following:

“Father, if You need a woman to rear children in righteousness, here am I, send me.”

“If You need a woman who will shun vulgarity and dress modestly and speak with dignity and show the world how joyous it is to keep the commandments, here am I, send me.”

“If You need a woman who can resist the alluring temptations of the world by keeping her eyes fixed on eternity, here am I, send me.”

“If You need a woman of faithful steadiness, here am I, send me.”

Between now and the day the Lord comes again, He needs women in every family, in every ward, in every community, in every nation who will step forward in righteousness and say by their words and their actions, “Here am I, send me.”

My question is, “Will you be one of those women? And will you men who hold the priesthood answer the same call?”

Now, I know most of you want to. But how will you do it? How, in a world filled with deceptive messages about women and the family—and the significance of both to the Lord—will you constantly respond to the Lord, “Here am I, send me”?

For those who really want to live up to who you are, for those who want to see through Satan’s deceptions and who at all costs want to repent if necessary, I have two suggestions: First, listen to and follow those whom we sustain as prophets, seers, and revelators. Second, learn to hear the voice of the Spirit, or the voice of the Lord as communicated by the power of the Holy Ghost.

Follow the Prophet and the Apostles

I cannot stress enough the importance of listening to and following the prophet and the apostles. In today’s world, where 24 hours a day television and radio commentators spew forth conflicting opinions, where marketers compete for everything from your money to your vote, there is one clear, unpolluted, unbiased voice that you can always count on. And that is the voice of the living prophet and the apostles. Their only motive is “the everlasting welfare of your souls” (2 Ne. 2:30).

Think of it! Think about the value of having a source of information whom you can always count on, who will always have your eternal interests at heart, and who will always provide inspired truth. That is a phenomenal gift and guide.

In November 2000, President Hinckley spoke to youth in a Churchwide fireside (see “A Prophet’s Counsel and Prayer for Youth,” Liahona, April 2001, 30–41). Have you young adults studied his message and identified things you need to avoid or do differently? I know a 17-year-old who just prior to the prophet’s talk had pierced her ears a second time.

She came home from the fireside, took off the second set of earrings, and said to her parents, “If President Hinckley says we should wear only one set of earrings, that’s good enough for me.”

Wearing two pairs of earrings may or may not have eternal consequences for this young woman, but her willingness to obey the prophet will. And if she will obey him now, on something relatively simple, how much easier it will be to follow him when greater issues are at stake.

I make you a promise. It is a simple one, but it is true. If you will listen to the living prophet and the apostles and heed our counsel, you will not go astray.

Learn to Hear the Voice of the Spirit

If you want to avoid the snares of Satan, if you need direction when the choices in front of you are puzzling and perplexing, learn to hear the voice of the Lord as communicated through the Holy Ghost. And then, of course, do what it tells you to do.

Nephi taught clearly that the Holy Ghost “is the gift of God unto all those who diligently seek him” and that “he that diligently seeketh shall find” (1 Ne. 10:17, 19). The stunning reality, my dear brothers and sisters, is that you control how close you are to the Lord. You determine just how clear and readily available promptings from the Holy Ghost will be. You determine this by your actions, by your attitude, by the choices you make, by the things you watch and wear and listen to and read, and by how consistently and sincerely you invite the Spirit into your life.

Contemplate for a moment the extent and the impact of this blessing! You have been given a gift that when exercised and respected will give you the answers to all of the confusing, difficult questions and problems you face in your lives.

I can only imagine some of the questions you young women are facing right now. Should you marry the young man you are now dating, or not? Should you finish your degree, or not? Should you serve a mission, or not? What career should you pursue? Why pursue a career with vigor when all you’ve ever really wanted is to be a mother?

As life progresses, how will you respond to challenges that will inevitably come? Will you know where to turn for peace and consolation if you are called upon to bury a child—as two of our own children have done—or if a child threatens to stray from the gospel path? How will you know what to do when you face financial reverses? Where will you turn for insight and inspiration when you are called upon to lead in your ward or stake? You young men are facing similar kinds of questions.

To all of you there is only one way to safely and confidently meet the obstacles and opportunities that are part of life’s path. First, listen to the prophet and the apostles. Study the principles we teach. Then take those principles to the Lord and ask Him how you should apply them in your life. Ask Him to influence your thoughts, temper your actions, and guide your steps. “Counsel with the Lord in all thy doings, and he will direct thee for good” (Alma 37:37). He will communicate with you through the power and presence of the Holy Ghost.

Heed Spiritual Promptings

There are several things that greatly enhance our ability to understand the promptings of the Holy Ghost and thereby hear the voice of God.

First is fasting and prayer. When the sons of Mosiah were united with Alma the Younger, they rejoiced in their reunion and acknowledged that because “they had given themselves to much prayer, and fasting,” they had been gifted with the spirit of prophecy and revelation, “and when they taught, they taught with power and authority of God” (Alma 17:3).

Second is immersing yourself in the scriptures. The words of Christ “will tell you all things what ye should do” (2 Ne. 32:3). The scriptures are a conduit for personal revelation. Young adults, your generation is much more versed in holy writ than was mine at your age. You have been taught to read and study the scriptures. I urge you to intensify your study of them. I promise that your ability to hear the voice of the Lord as communicated through the Holy Ghost will increase and improve.

Third is preparing to spend time in the house of the Lord. When the time appropriately comes for us to go to the temple, we leave the temple “armed with … power” (D&C 109:22) and with the promise that as we “grow up” in our knowledge of the Lord, we will “receive a fulness of the Holy Ghost” (D&C 109:15). The temple is a place of personal revelation. If you are endowed, visit the temple regularly. If you are not, prepare yourself to enter, for inside the doors of the temple rests the power that will fortify you against the vicissitudes of life.

Fourth is listening to the counsel of your father and mother and your spouse. They are wise and experienced. Share with them your fears and concerns. Seek blessings from your father. If for some reason he is not worthy or able, go to your bishop or your stake president. They love you and will count it a privilege to bless your life. If you have not already done so, you should also receive your patriarchal blessing.

Fifth is obedience and repentance. There are certain things you simply cannot do if you want to have the Holy Ghost with you. It is not possible to listen to vulgar lyrics, watch movies filled with sexual innuendo, tamper with pornography on the Internet (or anywhere else, for that matter), take the name of the Lord in vain, wear revealing clothing, compromise in any way the law of chastity, or disregard the values of true manhood and womanhood and expect the Holy Ghost to remain with you. Anyone who participates in those kinds of activities should not be surprised if feelings of loneliness, discouragement, and unworthiness follow. Do not make the choice to live without the Spirit of the Lord to guide, to protect, to prompt, to warn, and to fill you with peace. Repent if you need to so you can enjoy the companionship of the Spirit.

Women and men who can hear the voice of the Lord, and who respond to those promptings, become invaluable instruments in His hands. I will never forget an experience I had following a stake conference. I was asked to participate in a blessing for a young woman who was suffering with cancer. The family were converts, and they had found peace through the promptings of the Spirit. Prior to our giving the blessing, this dear sister said to me: “Elder Ballard, I am not afraid to die, but I would like to live here with my family. I am prepared to accept the will of my Father in Heaven. Please bless me to find peace and to know that He will be with me.” What faith, insight, and courage the Spirit had blessed her with! A few months later the family advised me that Heavenly Father had called her home. She died in peace, and the family lived in peace because they were familiar with the Spirit. One of the sweetest messages the Spirit will relay is how the Lord feels about you. And that reassurance will strengthen you in a way that almost nothing else can.

Now, finally, I turn again to you dear sisters, you who have such a profound, innate spiritual ability to hear the voice of the Good Shepherd. You need never wonder again if you have worth in the sight of the Lord and to the Brethren in the presiding councils of the Church. We love you. We cherish you. We respect you. Never doubt that your influence is absolutely vital to preserving the family and to assisting with the growth and spiritual vitality of the Church. This Church will not reach its foreordained destiny without you. We men simply cannot nurture as you nurture. Most of us don’t have the sensitivity—spiritual and otherwise—that by your eternal nature you inherently have. Your influence on families and on children, youth, and men is singular. You are natural-born nurturers. Because of these unusual gifts and talents, you are vital to taking the gospel to all the world, to demonstrating that there is joy in living the way the prophets have counseled us to live.

More than ever before we need women of faith, virtue, vision, and charity, as the Relief Society declaration proclaims (see Mary Ellen Smoot, “Rejoice, Daughters of Zion,” Liahona, January 2000, 112). We need women who can hear and who will respond to the voice of the Lord, women who at all costs will defend and protect the family. We don’t need women who want to be like men, sound like men, dress like men, drive like some men drive, or act like men. We do need women who rejoice in their womanhood and have a spiritual confirmation of their identity, their value, and their eternal destiny. Above all, we need women who will stand up for truth and righteousness and decry evil at every turn and simply say, “Lord, here am I, send me.”

I bear my witness and testimony to you that you are precious, that this is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The kingdom of God will roll forward until it fills the entire earth. It is for you to be beacons and banners to the entire world, to show the women and the men of the world that women have a natural disposition to do good and to seek after things of the Spirit.

I simply say to you, God bless the women of the Church.

Just a thought...

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"We the People are the rightful masters of both Congress and the Courts--not to overthrow the Constitution, but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution." Abraham Lincoln

"Patriotism means to stand by the country. It does NOT mean to stand by the President or any other public official save exactly to the degree in which he himself stands by the country. It is patriotic to support him insofar as he efficiently serves the country. It is unpatriotic not to oppose him to the exact extent that by inefficiency or otherwise he fails in his duty to stand by the country." Theodore Roosevelt

"Hold on, my friends, to the Constitution and to the Republic for which it stands. Miracles do not cluster, and what has happened once in 6000 years, may not happen again. Hold on to the Constitution, for if the American Constitution should fail, there will be anarchy throughout the world." Daniel Webster

I know, that is a lot of quotes.  I just love them, they say so powerfully what I hold dear:)

     As you all know, we vote for our next president this coming week.  I feel like this election is one of the most important elections we will face.  Our next president determines where our country will go.  It is my personal opinion that if President Obama is re-elected, then our country as we know it is finished.  We will no longer be a democracy, enjoying the freedoms that we have come to expect.  Obama did bring the change he promised, but it wasn't a change for good.  In the past several years we have seen  the degradation of our nation, the last four being the most alarming.  Our national debt has sky rocketed, the government holds ownership over the bank and auto industry, our military and defense funding has been cut,  we heavily depended on foreign oil sources from countries who are not American friendly, the courts override what the people have voted for, unemployment runs rampant, illegal immigrants are given free rein of the country and the federal government sues states who are trying to protect their borders and the people who live there, healthcare has became socialized, free commerce threatened, welfare has increased and the Constitution attacked. This is just a short list but I find it all so disturbing.  Our government has been taking control of every aspect of our lives and We the People are letting them!
     I've heard some people say, "Well I'm going to vote for Obama because he's black" or "I'm voting for him because he supports gay marriage."  Narrow minded indeed is the person who places such a decision on just one issue.  I'll tell you why I'm not voting for Obama, besides all the reasons listed previously.  1.  He has no business sense and with the state of our economy, I want someone in office who knows how to handle finances.  2.  His dealings with Libya and how the government has lied about it.  I don't know about you, but I'd like America's leader to be honest.  3.  His disregard for the military.  I am so thankful for those brave men and women who go out and defend our nation and the rights of others and if the Commander-in-Chief isn't supportive of those troops then he should not be the Commander-in-Chief.  4.  His "celebrity" status.  A lot of Obama's support comes from Tinseltown and he's been hob nobbin it with stars ever since he was elected.  He's not going to do anything to lose that support group so his re-election will really just benefit them and it's not like celebrities have to worry about money like the rest of us do.  5.  He doesn't take responsibilities for things.  He passes the blame.  Harry S. Truman had a sign in his office that read "The Buck Stops Here."  Apparently Obama doesn't share that same mentality.  6.  Obama oversteps his role as president.   There's a reason why the founders of our nation created the checks and balances, it was to keep any one branch from becoming too powerful.  I guess they didn't plan for "King" Obama.  See this link  http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2011/sep/16/obama-tears-up-the-constitution/ 7.  Obama shows no support for those with religious principles.  At least other presidents were friendly towards religious parties.  I haven't heard nor seen anything like that from Obama.
     We are an imperfect nation run by imperfect people.  Even the great men and women of our country had faults but they also had integrity, honesty and believed in the country they lived in.  To me, Obama doesn't believe in America and he doesn't want it to succeed.  One of my favorite songs is "God Bless the USA," I don't know if you've heard it so I'm going to attach the lyrics because they're awesome:

  God Bless The USA

by Lee Greenwood

If tomorrow all the things were gone,
I'd worked for all my life.
And I had to start again,
with just my children and my wife.

I'd thank my lucky stars,
to be livin here today.
‘Cause the flag still stands for freedom,
and they can't take that away.

And I'm proud to be an American,
where at least I know I'm free.
And I wont forget the men who died,
who gave that right to me.

And I gladly stand up,
next to you and defend her still today.
‘Cause there ain't no doubt I love this land,
God bless the USA.

From the lakes of Minnesota,
to the hills of Tennessee.
Across the plains of Texas,
From sea to shining sea.

From Detroit down to Houston,
and New York to L.A.
Well there's pride in every American heart,
and its time we stand and say.

That I'm proud to be an American,
where at least I know I'm free.
And I wont forget the men who died,
who gave that right to me.

And I gladly stand up,
next to you and defend her still today.
‘Cause there ain't no doubt I love this land,
God bless the USA.

And I'm proud to be and American,
where at least I know I'm free.
And I wont forget the men who died,
who gave that right to me.

And I gladly stand up,
next to you and defend her still today.
‘Cause there ain't no doubt I love this land,
God bless the USA.

I love our country and I am willing to stand up for it, which is why I feel so strongly about this.  Join me in standing up for America, the land of the free and the home of the brave.  Just a thought....

I Am An American Woman

A Rant:

      I have been thinking about freedom a lot these past few weeks, specifically a woman's freedom of choice.  This has been a hot topic for a long time now, women's rights, and people have very strong opinions on the subject.  Today I was sitting and thinking about it and a question came to my mind, what are women fighting for the right to have?  It seems like everything I hear on the news about women's right seems to be focused on their right to make choices about their own bodies, concerning healthcare and issues over reproduction. My dear sisters, we already hold that right.
     In the Declaration of Independence it states, We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed, by their Creator, with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.  We are born with rights, we already have our freedom, no one gives it to us.  The Founding Fathers understood this principle and that's what helped them pull together when they made the decision to go to war. Now, let's compare that with the French Revolution, the French who were also looking for freedom, and what happened?  Their country was thrown into turmoil, terror and ended up in a dictatorship.  Both countries wanted the same thing, so why did only one succeed? The French were looking at freedom the wrong way.  They thought that by killing off the monarchy, they would gain their freedom, but it never came so they kept on killing those they thought responsible. 
     With the idea of freedom already endowed upon us, let's return to the issue at hand, a woman's right to her own body.  I am a woman.  No one has control over my body, I choose what I do with it.  Do you see that?  It's that word choose.  I have the choice of what I do or not do.  Now here's where I think  people get mad.  We all have choices and all those choices come with strings attached called consequences.  With our freedom, we have the ability to choose what to do.  For example, I have made the choice not to have kids yet.  I just got married and my husband and I have decided to wait for a little while.  In order to make that choice, we take precautions and have preventative measures in place.  We are taking responsibility for our choice. I do my part and he does his.  I honestly think that this is the big issue, woman don't want to take responsibility for their choices and want to get out of the consequences.  You already have the freedom ladies, so it's time to step up to the responsibility it comes with.  If you choose to not have kids then take responsibility of using birth control.  If you are raped then choose to fight, choose to go to the police and do everything you can to put the rapist behind bars. It is your body, it is your choice, but it is also your responsibility, it's part of being an adult.
     Now this brings me to another subject, a very touchy one, the subject of abortion.  The two sides have come out Pro-life and Pro-choice(because Pro-death was just too obvious).  I am a woman.  I believe that women are every bit as great as men in regards to equality, but I do not agree with abortion.    The declaration says that all men are created.  We are all created, including those still in the process of being so and because they are, they are also given the right to Liberty, the pursuit of Happiness, and Life.  I once saw a picture that had a woman with a sign about women's rights, a gay couple with a sign about gay marriage and underneath was a picture of a fetus with the words "You want the right of choice and you want the right of marriage.  I just want the right to live."  Just a Thought....

The Hunger Games and America

A Rant:

"The Constitution is not an instrument for the government to restrain the people, it is an instrument for the people to restrain the government – lest it come to dominate our lives and interests." – Patrick Henry

*disclaimer: I do not own The Hunger Games.  All thoughts are my own and are not affiliated with the author in anyway.

     It might seem a little odd for you, dear reader, to read a quote about the Constitution and see a picture of The Hunger Games emblem. What do these even have in common?  Let me share my thoughts with you. 

     I had never read the Hunger Games trilogy or seen the movie until a few weeks ago.  I really had no interest in reading a novel about teenagers being forced to kill one another for the sport of others.  I don't like dystopian genre novels, they usually end unhappily and I like a happy ending.  I was pretty set on remaining off  The Hunger Games bandwagon until my husband got sick and wanted to watch it.  I agreed on the condition that we didn't watch it at night (to prevent bad dreams of course!).  The movie was good and I was surprised to find that I liked it.  Since the movie ends at the first book, I had to read the other two because I can't stand not knowing the end.  I read Catching Fire and Mockingjay within a couple of days and these thoughts started entering my head.

     The government of Panem has control over everything.  I find it disturbing that the American government echos the imaginary Capitol.  Socialized healthcare anyone?  The government run school system? (I graduated in Elementary Ed.), the bailouts to banks and the auto industry? Even more disturbing and, an added twist in my HG thought-mongerings, laws coming out concerning what parents can and cannot do when it comes to their children.  It seems like everyday I hear about more and more government run programs.  I can see the appeal of the government taking care of everyone.  It must be nice to have someone else give you food, shelter, money, a job, health care, education and a free iPhone, but government control of everything comes with a price.  OUR FREEDOM!!!!!  The founding fathers understood this principle so well, that it became the preamble to The Declaration of Independence:

 We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed, by their Creator, with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.

In fact, I think the whole Declaration is awesome so I'm going post it right here:

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed, by their Creator, with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.

That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles, and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness.
Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object, evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.

These few paragraphs are so bold and full of important messages, that I think it would behoove us all to take them to heart.  

     Now I'm not saying that we're going to become an indulgent society who delights in violence and preys on the misfortune of others by taking their children and having them fight to the death for our amusement, that certainly seems far-fetched, but I am cautious and concerned about the slippery path our government has taken.  A few words from Thomas Jefferson illustrate my thoughts perfectly:

"A wise and frugal Government, which shall restrain men from injuring one another, which shall leave them otherwise free to regulate their own pursuits of industry and improvement, and shall not take from the mouth of labor the bread it has earned. This is the sum of good government, and this is necessary to close the circlue of our felicities." 


"All tyranny needs to gain a foothold is for people of good conscience to remain silent."


"When the people fear the government, there is tyranny. When the government fears the people, there is liberty." 

I hope, with this election coming up, that the American people will remember the importance of these freedoms that others worked so hard to bring about in this country.  Our Declaration is unique, our Constitution, also, unique.  We are so blessed here, but I'm afraid we've forgotten that.  It is time for us to remember and to reclaim those virtues and freedoms we are losing and preserve them for our future.

Just a thought....